How to start a conversation on Tinder

Starting a conversation on Tinder is relatively easy. All you have to do is like the profiles you liked and wait for one of the people behind them to like you too. How do you do that?

How to start a chat conversation on Tinder

Go to the main view of the app. Here you have two options: either you swipe to the right or you press the green button with the heart picture.

Like profiles you likeLike profiles you like

You also have the option to Super Like someone by selecting the Tinder option below. The Super Like is a way of telling the other person that you really liked their profile so they understand your interest.

Give Super Likes when you particularly like someoneGive Super Likes when you particularly like someone

From here, all you have to do is wait for one of these people to give you a reciprocal like. Whenever that happens, it’s called a match, one Match. In these cases, the parties involved can start a conversation through the Tinder chat and take the first steps to get to know each other and eventually arrange a date. Once you’ve landed a hit, just go to the chat area at the bottom of your app.

Switch to the chat areaSwitch to the chat area

Now select the profile of the person you want to start a conversation with and see if the chemistry between you is right.

Choose a match and start a conversationChoose a match and start a conversation

Of course, these conversations do not always end with a face-to-face meeting. We all know that human relationships are complex. Just because you like someone physically doesn’t mean the communication chemistry is right.

Chat with your matchChat with your match

Tips and phrases to start a conversation on Tinder

If you’re having a hard time communicating over chat, or you’re just nervous when talking to someone you’re attracted to, we can give you a little help.

  • The first thing we will ask of you is, not attaching too much importance to any conversation. There is a very wide universe of possibilities on Tinder and you will not always be talking to the love of your life.
  • Relax yourself and stop thinking about if the person on the other side will like you because if they will like you Like has given, it means that you are on the right path. Instead, try to find out if this person is really a good fit for the type of relationship you’re looking for: a fling, a commitment, or a friendship.
  • If you don’t think of yourself as a great speaker, don’t read too much into it. This is usually a sign that you just haven’t found anyone who shares your interests. We all have our passions and when you have someone to share them with, you can talk about them for hours.

So get rid of all those fears and stop searching the internet for crappy seduction strategies because preset phrases and predefined conversations will not give you fluency and naturalness. It is true that there are no magic formulas to get together with people, but we assure you that if you do, you will see that there is magic.

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